4 Secrets to Meeting Someone

Here are a few tips to make it easier to meet someone in real life.

1. Group settings.

Conversation just seems to flow naturally when there are others about. There’s less pressure.

2. You are more attractive when you are relaxed and having fun.

Let your hair down and be yourself. This is much easier when you are involved in an activity. There’s no time to be self-conscious when you’re busy having fun.

3. If you want to meet interesting people, do interesting things.

At Events and Adventures we encourage you to mix it up. Try something new. Socialize with people outside of your circle and put yourself out there. Expand your comfort zone. Carpe Diem. Carpe Noctem. All that. With 30-50 interesting local events a month, we make it easy to try new things.

4. Always remember to show good FORM.

If you would rather rub sand in your eyes than talk to someone you are attracted to, instead of talking about yourself, ask questions in each of these areas to keep the cat from your tongue.

  • Family
  • Occupation
  • Recreation
  • Membership (“what was the last event you went to?”)

Here are some examples. 

Family – Start with talk about their family.
“Do you have any brothers or sisters? Where did you grow up? We used to go tobogganing there too.”

Occupation – Ask a little about their job.
“What do you do? Oh, they have specialists for that kind of thing?” Move into:

Recreation – “What are your pastimes?”

Membership: if you’re an E&A member, you are living a shared experience. We guarantee there will be plenty to talk about.

Ask questions and really listen to the answers.  You will learn more about the people you are with, and it takes away that nervous “I have to be entertaining” feeling.

Events and Adventures provides the framework for you to get out of the house, make new friends and find that special someone.

It won’t happen without YOU taking the first step. Luckily that step is not a step at all but, a link, right here at your fingertip (1-800-386-0866).

So get out. Have fun. And meet someone.

How To Join

Friends. Fun. New Activities. Does this seem like something you’d like to try?

Whether it’s to put a toe in the water, or jump right in with both feet, we are here to help you get settled in and answer any questions you may have.

Simply fill out this form, or call our toll-free number (1-800-386-0866) and one of our helpful staff will guide you through the process…

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